All my H wants from me at the moment is to sign a waiver so he can get a mtg. on a house and land. While I feel it will be a mistake for him, I suppose as long as it does not effect me or my credit, I should let him make his own mistakes. He seems to be pushing for that, not for the D.
And that me friend is unconditional love!!!
You want to show him what he is missing, the next time he asks you about it just be agreeable and say "Okay".
When you take what "you want" and what "you desire" out of your communication with him you will start to feel differently. I agree with you and you do not need to help him 1 bit with the divorce and you certainly need to protect yourself.
These are the steps that will lead you to the place where you will no longer "question" your decisions.
Hope your day is getting better.
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
