Thank you very much MHL & Lance. It is true, I have been questioning my decisions much lately. I know that your first instinct is most often the right instinct, and my first instinct was to hang in there. I always appreciate a male point of view. Venus & Mars, you know.
All my H wants from me at the moment is to sign a waiver so he can get a mtg. on a house and land. While I feel it will be a mistake for him, I suppose as long as it does not effect me or my credit, I should let him make his own mistakes. He seems to be pushing for that, not for the D.
With my daughter moving back in, even as we speak, I will be observing the break up of a marriage from a wholly different angle. In this case, it is my SIL who will have to decide to stand or not.