Yes, H is a man first. A very self controlled and unemotional one. he's hurting, I know that. This isn't all about me, I also know that.
We talked this morning about things. Didn't discuss our R, but talked about Alpha dog issues. I cried a bit, I am overtired as I never slept last night. H said he cries too, just not where anyone can see.
Your suggestion about inviting H to his favorite place sounds good. I'll try that.