It hurt because I had approached him, cautiously, several times, and he always had an excuse. His back was bothering him, his various injuries hurt. Eventually, you stop approaching because it's not fun being rejected all the time.
I had the same experience, punkin, though I don't believe ED was the problem. "Not fun being rejected" is an understatement. For me it was devastasting. I finally quit asking. I now believe his refusal was because he was seeing other women, but I may never know for sure.
M 65 H 64 T 39 & M 36 @ S 12/08 Two Ds
Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
