My H pulled the rug out shortly after we moved also. Not 500 miles, but it dramatically changed my life. Went from a 15 min commute to an hour and a half. His went from an hour to 10 min.

Your H has a lot of issues he needs to work through. As I told packergirl, take care of YOU. Read the book, read threads, and read the threads with quotes - I found those really helpful.

It take both H and W to get to this point, but the WAS will not own their part right away. For me, I'm not sure my H will ever be accountable. Hang in there -

Last edited by LRT Land; 08/08/10 04:21 PM.
He: WAH
Me: LBW
Precious: DD

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