That is what Im doing Rob, I am looking at a few houses within 1-2 miles of our current house. Some are vacant and some are ready sept 1, I have the cash to get the landlord motivated for me to move quickly. The ting is the W has known for at least a week, and has done nothing about her own sitch. She is so self obsorbed with her feelings she has made no effort to move forward. I guess she assumed I would enable her by doing all the work for her except the D. Originally I told her I would represent myself, now she knows I plan on getting a L, she is steming now, but she needs to steam, reality check and needs to find her big girl panties.