I hate to say it, QS, but as long as you're in that house, and she's paying half, I think you're going to continue to put up with this bullchit, over and over and over and . . .
It's like when my teenaged and college-aged daughters would object to my "control" in their lives. I would point out to them that "You say you want to be independent, but as long as I'm paying for half your college expenses (or living in my house, etc.), then I'm sorry, you're NOT 'independent'."
If you want to be free and clear of all of that, you need to be free and clear.
Puppy
He's workin on it pupper. I think QS wants to buy the home outright or go in halfsies with someone else...
I lived in an apartment for eight years and it was hell. I don't blame anyone for wanting to live in their own home.
