W is still cold, I might have gone to church with a complete stranger. Now I am getting to the point, actually I am at the point of just moving on, gonna talk with a L this week get one retained to file a counter against her petition. Of course the first hearing is 8 days after we are to be out of the house, she claims she wants to stay in.
I really don't know how she is going to go get a place with the kids in the next 3 weeks. She doesn't have the money unless her dad gives it to her. All I can do now is again, fight for custody and lead without her in my life.
Your right TH, we were putting the kids to bed, I said the D and S that they are running around with Daddy tomorrow while mommy is riding horses. W looked at me and said what are you doing tomorrow? I looked her right in the eyes and said looking for houses to move in to. She had a look on her face that was blank.........
so the friend who disagrees with the W, texted me last night and said W andI need to be friends first to love again. Friend says after talking with W she sees hope in us. I dont know what to do, I am going to look at houses today, and tonight I am going to remind the W we have 3 weeks to vacate the home. I would like to start going through property and seeing what I will take, she will take. I told the friend that the W is being a sellfish, spoiled brat and does not deserve my friendship.
I feel like throwing in the towel to be honest with you all.
W was leaving for Riding, and ireminded her we have 3 weeks to vacate. She said how long have you known this I tiold her friday. SHe is trying to manipulate me, she said I thought we were going to get a house, and you were going to stay part time at the house and part time at a friends. I said you filed for D, I have 4 weeks before a hearing, I am going to meet with a L this week and file an answer to the petition. She says so your plan all along was to find a house for yourself and leave me hanging. I reminded her you filed for D, we need to discuss a garage sale and splitting up stuff over the next week. SHe left pissed off, and I dont feel an ounce of guilt about it. I will enjoy my time with the kids today.
yes she needs to put on her big girl panties, for the last 2 weeks she has been working and banking money, what i am doing is no different than her blindsiding me with the D, no warning no discussion.
3 weeks isn't alot of time to move and find a new place to live, this needs to be your top priority right now, maybe find a temporary apartment for you and your kids while you're looking for a new home, seriously 3 weeks... it will go by very fast.
Leave the db'ing on the side for now, finding somewhere to live is #1 on your to-do list.
That is what Im doing Rob, I am looking at a few houses within 1-2 miles of our current house. Some are vacant and some are ready sept 1, I have the cash to get the landlord motivated for me to move quickly. The ting is the W has known for at least a week, and has done nothing about her own sitch. She is so self obsorbed with her feelings she has made no effort to move forward. I guess she assumed I would enable her by doing all the work for her except the D. Originally I told her I would represent myself, now she knows I plan on getting a L, she is steming now, but she needs to steam, reality check and needs to find her big girl panties.
