Cas, Yes, XH's LLs are AOS, gifts, and QT. Mine are PT and WOA. XH's work on the house yesterday was his part of a "barter agreement" that we made a couple months ago. He did a good job (just like he would if he still lived here) though. Went above and beyond. If he comes back to help with the patio light........that will be an AOS.
MHL, thanks for your encouragement to journal. I have been watching your situation and wish you the best too as you move forward. Yesterday I read the last 2 months of Lance's sitch on another site and read many of your comments there as well. Keep moving forward.
