Packergirl, I totally agree about the counseling, but he will not go. He thinks it only works for 'people who believe in that sort of thing' and he doesn't. Plus he is new at this position and would never ask for time off for any appointments, let alone something with a stigma like this.
He's home studying today up locked away in the 'man room' and the kids and I are dressed and heading out for a long walk. Going to see if we can walk to a local bakery. My plan is to just keep chugging along, reading the rest of the book (I'm past page 200 now) and then reading Divorce Busting when it arrives Tuesday.
Me 32 H 32 Ds 3.5 and 1.5 M 5 years, T 14 years EA/Bomb: 7/1/10 PA revealed: 9/14/10 Legally separated: 10/01/10
