OK QS

The fact that her mother has to be present for her to be civil shows you pretty clear it is an act.

I am getting sick of their mindreading so you must be too.

You staying in that house isn't hurting anyone...

He mother is a mess and uninformed. Ignore her.

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I honestly don't think this mind reading is anything more than a smoke screen. Your wife wants money and wants to make your life as miserable as her life feels so they put pressure on you.

I think your wife knows you are fed up with her given the remark about you seeing someone else.

I don't think this "you aren't done" game of theirs is about you being done at all. What does your wife care if you are "done" or not anyways? Why is that so bloody important to her?

She's got her own home, the home will be sold eventually. She's got her D filed. QS what on earth does your wife care if you are DONE or not?

You know what I think? I think she still is attracted to you and it bugs the hell out of her. I think all the work you've done and how maturely you have handled yourself has impressed her. I think when she complains about you not being done she's ASKING if you are...

What a freakin child... Way too damn proud to simply apologize and negotiate.

Yup, if you aren't done with her, she has a lot of growing up to do... And her mother too. You don't want to get into that wasps nest without your wife getting some very serious therapy.

Don't worry, there are ways to show your wife you are "done" if that's what you want her convinced of.