That which I find encouraging about the "cat toys" writing is that he does not encourage depressive, belly aching and whiny behavior. He encourages strength, confidence and resolve. I read from him a lot of being an individual, knowing your strengths and weaknesses and staying true to yourself if your someone else no longer wants to play as a team.
Maybe, never have I read him say, "its ok, everything is going to be all right" when some other man writes that he lost all his hard earned DB'ing because he asked his wife to reconsider and she snapped.
I have read him call a lot of men "wussies."
I believe if more people here encouraged others as Rob does, we would read a lot less people writing how a majority of these marriages are doomed to fail.
"Prince Charming" is also used as a term to refer to the idealized man some people dream of as a future spouse.
