After Exposure - Keep It Going

[Quicksilver264]

Question : When she started playing like she was being civil (and it was a game, she wasn't being civil.. She's lying to you and you know that.. It's an act, its not civility, its manipulation) was her mother present?

She was COMPLETELY NICE, and civil, and even vulnerable. WHEREAS, when her mom is not there, she doesn't even speak to me and is the complete OPPOSITE.

How was she behaving when her mother was there?

She was perfectly civil, and she was totally calm. Got a little emotional when talking to me alone, but all in all very calm.

The WHOLE thing is with her mom:

Her mom says my decision to stay in the house hurts EVERYONE, my wife, and her and her dad. I said "It was my wife's choice to move out, so why should I give up my house?"

She said "Did you ever ask yourself WHY she wants to move out? Did you ever ask yourself WHAT ROLE YOU played in all of this?"

She said I am a "taker" and not a "giver" and that she "feels used in all of this" because I went to her for support and now I am staying in the house and she feels it's hurting EVERYONE immensely.

And my wife said "You won't be DONE with me until you sell this house, sign the divorce papers, and split our cell phone accounts. I will be in your life until those 3 things are done".

"All I want is my name off the mortgage, and I don't care how long you drag out the divorce, I just don't want to pay the mortgage and rent. Until then I have the right to come and go in this house and make sure it is taken care of."

They BOTH keep saying to me "Your actions speak a whole lot louder than your words".