As far as the wifes feelings. I am slowly learning that lesson. I know that they are hers. It's just that I am used to being the one who would make her happy (feelings) or sad (feelings) or angry (feelings). So my logic tries to dictate that if I was responsible for any or all of those, then I should be able to do it again. Does that make sense? I guess I am not used to feeling helpless, and that is exactly what I am right now.
