On this subject, I am wanting a man's perspective.
My H had multiple injuries from Iraq, surgery, was taking up to 10 pills a day. In all this he had Erectle Dysfunction. He would try and just couldn't. The medication caused him to have headaches. It became so that we both dreaded trying because of the possible "failure to launch". I approached him on several occasions, but he shyed away.
Then, when he left me for a woman our son's age, one of the parting shots he threw at me was "We haven't had sex in 3 months" This was my fault? I though I was being supportive of him. I had told him repeatedly that if he had come back from Iraq with his equipment shot off, it wouldn't have mattered. That was not what made our marriage.
