Okay, I'm going to say it. Play Devil's Advocate. This is a support board, and an excellent one, but there are times when I wonder if we are self deluded left behind spouses just helping each other through the pain. Don't yell! I don't believe in percentages or polls, I don't need specific marriages pointed out to me. I know it either will or it won't - that's all in God's hands.
On the other hand, maybe that's what we really all need, support from people going through the same HELL we are. I know if I didn't have this board I would be a lot unhappier and would not have come as far as I have in detaching.
In short, sometimes it's hard to distinguish between the happy mask the WS displays to the world; whether it's really a delusion and a mask, or if we are the one deluding ourselves that they are not happier without us.
