Long Distance Issues.....Possible WAW

[Dazed&Confused]

Pinhead,

You are exactly right. I do not think my divorce will take as long to complete though. My state does not have any of those requirements, and my wife appears to want this done as quick and civil as possible.

Like Puppy said though, I do not want this. I will try and give her what she wants as long as it is in the best interest of me and my kids. The hard part of that is, I know that saving my marriage is what would be best. It's a very slippery slope and I can't stand to be on it.

Back to dream for a minute though. I thought the exact same thing. I think that is why I had such a hard time going back to sleep. I actually got up and checked my freaking email. Just when I think I am doing better, I have a night like this.

I know what you mean about the sex. I am so emotionally dettached right now, I can't even think about it. I know that people always say rash things like "i don't know if i will ever date again" but I can say now that I know what they are feeling. I wouldn't be able to date while in seperation either, there is nothing wrong with that. I would have to wait just like you. The sad thing is, even with all of your time tables, you may beat me to it my friend!

It will be a long time before I right again. I will not venture down that path until I am. That I am sure of. I will concentrate on getting my finances in order somehow, and the rest of my time will be spent on raising my kids. That is my plan. I think the rest will just have to come with time.

Just know that you aren't alone in this, and thanks for checking on my thread. It helps to know that there are others out there in the same boat as us.