And my wife and I had another talk, where I mentioned that is was SO HYPOCRITICAL to mention adultery. She said "We are still married and that means we can't sleep with other people. I am NOT going to, and it will be a period of celibacy".
"A period of celibacy"? Why? Because she commands it?
Newsflash: once she filed for divorce, she forfeited her right to exclusivity. She broke the marital contract and thus surrendered her monogamous claim.
Besides, if she's "done" with the relationship, why does she care who you sleep with? It's none of her business!
Don't know what your state's laws are regarding adultery, but if it doesn't make any difference legally, I might even mention that you already have women giving you their phone numbers, so you won't be lonely for long. Let her chew on that one for a bit...
