Coping every day

[LRT Land]

Susan - it sounds like you are getting a reaction, maybe not the one you were hoping for, but it's good that he's noticing.

I agree with others that H is a man first and engineer second. Keep being nice, dressing sexy and behaving how you would like to be in a happy R. You will make in roads. Too little too late (as my H was fond of saying)? You can't control your H, but you can put your best self forward and know, whichever fork in the road you end up taking, you did your best.

As for the movie, DR says accepts some invitations but not all, so I think you are doing fine. Maybe you could invite him now to one of his favorite places? I think that was the night my H and I first had sx. We went to his favorite italian restaurant and I plied him with sangria.