OK. That sounds like a healthy plan. D18 and I talked for quite awhile today. Her biggest fear is that either she or S16 will get so upset with H that they will just blurt out stuff at him. I told her that it's OK to have anger - anger is not wrong, but you have to express it right. She and S16 are on board. We will just have to see how it goes this coming week I suppose.
Meanwhile, no more talk of leaving or whatnot from H. He's been somewhat cooperative with the family but still is not "all in." D and I went shopping today for college stuff. Tried to get him to come along but he did not want to. I told him that financially, it would be good for him to have an opinion on what we spent on what...still did not want to go. I discussed the budget for the shopping trip and he agreed. We did go to the movies later as a family. SO...all is calm for the moment.
