damn it--

I think I get why most of us on here are still pining a little for our spouses or go up and down...

we do not have a boyfriend/girlfriend.

NOT THAT it means that is the answer...I know we need to heal and deal, work on ourselves before getting involved (why again? I get confused...to not get broken hearted??

For me, I have a panic attick thinking of that level of involvement/work/time commitment to another person right now! No boyfriend please! ( Although I think I

will probably not post as much once I go back to work.

And those that are reconciled don't post much....wait, there are a few and I wonder "why are they spending so much time on here instead of being with their spouses?"

NOT in the Surviving the Big D forum, obviously!

but anyway just saying.

Last edited by newmama; 08/08/10 02:19 AM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004