I think I get why most of us on here are still pining a little for our spouses or go up and down...
we do not have a boyfriend/girlfriend.
NOT THAT it means that is the answer...I know we need to heal and deal, work on ourselves before getting involved (why again? I get confused...to not get broken hearted??
For me, I have a panic attick thinking of that level of involvement/work/time commitment to another person right now! No boyfriend please! ( Although I think I
will probably not post as much once I go back to work.
And those that are reconciled don't post much....wait, there are a few and I wonder "why are they spending so much time on here instead of being with their spouses?"
NOT in the Surviving the Big D forum, obviously!
but anyway just saying.
Last edited by newmama; 08/08/1002:19 AM.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004