C2H, I AM SURE that most of us relate to how painful that must have been to hear your stbxw talking about her house, let alone just hearing her VOICE!

You WILL get there. I think it might happen when we accept that we each are on a different journey, stbx and ourselves, and allow ourselves to live life as if they are not part of our picture, but just part of our kids' picture. Oh yeah, S has his visit with his dad at 5 (like it is a dr. appt)

I was so pleased to read that you told your D to turn off the speaker when talking to her mom!!!!


Last edited by newmama; 08/08/10 02:10 AM.

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004