Glad you set boundaries.You are doing great.So very very proud of you.
As I already said, TWO Alpha dogs, same house, doesn't work. The tough broad thing is just bluster and a cover.
Yes, the WAW needs to realize she won't be living in the same style as to which she has been accustomed. HER choice.
Sounds like you ARE detaching, or maybe you've just had enough of WAW 's wanting her cake and eating it too. Don't WAS's realize all the upheaval their choices cause. Are THEY that selfish? I understand they are in pain, but so are WE and the children suffer too. It's not all about what WAS didn't get in the M.
YOU can set the timeframe, not her.Go for it.I am thinking I will leave before my "get the h out " date". But then again, maybe not. It's up to ME, my comfort level, etc. WE must stand up for ourselves.
My H had the nerve today to tell me I should see a lawyer and have our docs to date reviewed. My reply was since YOU are the one initiating a split, YOU need to do the leg work, and pay for the first review, that I will then take to a lawyer for review. Talk about having cake!
