I learned this from Ann Landers years ago. When someone asks you a question that is too personal, ask them a question back.

Like: "Why would you ask me that?" with a bright smile and looking slightly confused.

Or: "Why? Are you going through a divorce too?" with a concerned look.

What ever their answer, you have the opportunity to move away from them without having to answer.

Have it canned and ready to go!




"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!"
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