You are right. I can only own MY part of the M screw up, which I do.I own it, I analyze it, I am learning from it.
The painful part of this whole M mess is that I still think it's fixable, H doesn't.
Yes, I have read the detaching info.I printed it out and I read it several times a day. Very good advice, hard to do without slipping up and regressing here and there. It's nose to grindstone time.
