I owe you a thank you too. I know that I became a little stand offish when you told me I was possibly being "Naive" but your words didn't go unnoticed.
As far as busting an affair...I think the only affair needed to be busted was me and my booze.
Regardless if there is another man, I can't change that. However, Sandi2 says it the best...YOU have to become someone she is attracted to.
When I ask myself am I attractive to me? I can honestly answer NO.
Then ask myself what will make me attractive to myself? Well there's a lot lol. Whether she comes back, that's not my problem.
