NM - I hear you about being a single mom. I thought it would get better with age, but it hasn't. S is sooooooooooooo clingy now when he sees or talks to H so it is definitely hard, and I am going to empathize with you because I completely understand where you are coming from. It is so hard being a single mom, especially being that we didn't choose this path for ourselves, but you are doing a great job!
If you have questions post them here. There are plenty of single moms around who will help give advice and maybe you can get some differing opinions so you can pick what is best for you.
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