21 years of marriage hanging by a thread

[Chuck66]

I went out with friends last night. Told the W I'd be home by midnight and got home at 1:15. She wants me to pay today.

Said she is not going to church with family tomorrow. It was going to be our first day of church ever.

She said she is not going to the museum with family next week.

At first she said she was going out from 1 pm to midnight and I said "So that's how we are going to play this?" and walked off. She thought that over for a few minutes and said she is going out from 2pm to 8pm tonight, like she said she was earlier in the week.

She asked how long this D is going to take. I told her my L said until Jan. She asked if we could do mediation instead. I said I asked my L. Google says no mediation if dissolution of marriage is filed by either party.

My idea about pulling the D paperwork at any time is true unless W files a counter claim to the dissolution, which my W did. So if I pull the papers the D just keeps on going now.

She said she still loves me on Mon. I still love her and we are getting a D. Nice.