Its tough to face this everyday. What makes this so hard for you and me is that we make logical, rational decisions on logical, rational thoughts with a sprinkling of emotion on the side. MLC'r would not know logic or rational anything. It is a warped world and in a way helps us know they have fallen and can't get up. A friend of mine stated it like this: Your W is in a pitch black room and can't find the string to pull to turn on the light. In fact, they don't look for the string at all most days. They would rather yell and scream at their spouse for putting them in that room first place. I was about to add more graphic humor of what goes on in that room in the mean time but I thought that would be rude, so I won't. It also won't say much about me taking the high road either and I find I struggle with that too. So one day they find the string and they see how much of a mess they made. There, I said it. Sorry if it is offensive but then I apologize. I take no credit for it, but it helps to use some humor over beer with a buddy to make some sense out of it all.
