Good afternoon. I hope everyone is making it through this hot summer day. I have a virus infection, down for the count yesrterday. But, my H has been consistently and fervently trying to reach me.
He hasn't been rude; I haven't spoken to him. Keeping my distance. Actually baking a cake right not. Feeling better and have a sweet tooth for a slice. With the LBS diet taking off 25 lbs, and me feeling like I am once again 25 (maybe that is taking it too far), I can afford a slice. The rest sharing with neighbors.
My letter goes something like this:
"My Husband, your brother, uncle, friend and colleague has been engaged in an affair with a woman at work for at least the last year. I was initially very devestated as he spent our wedding anniversary wining and dining this homewrecker. Her name is Amy and she reports to him. As you know, he left earlier this year indicating that he was unhappy with me. Well, it is due to his shameless affair and unfair treatment of me as the enemy through this. I am seeking your support in ending this affair by removing yourselves from his life as he has told each of you a lie as to the reason behind HIS leaving. I asked him to go to counseling even after I found out about the affair and he went 3 times together only for me to find out that he was still seeing her while we attended those counseling sessions.
She is a a friend of him on Facebook, now that I have given you her name, each of you will know who she is. The commitment, as you all know, he has for military service makes this affair even more damaging to his future/career/ and retirement from the military.
I have been a good wife, friend, and sister to each of you. I have not cheated or been untrue in any way towards my Husband, it is truly unfair and unbecoming a soldier/sailor for him to treat me, our marriage, and our lives in such a reckless and careless manner.
I am seeking your support."
THOUGHTS?
Me 41/H 49 M 12yrs No Kids Bomb 1/10/2010 H Deployed The three great essentials to achieve anything worth while are, first, hard work; second, stick-to-itiveness; third, common sense. T. Edison
