MHL and PEI, thanks for the book recommendation. This hits all the right notes that I think she's referenced in our conversations. MHL you are right - these things are totally mundane to me, yet I now understand she craves that feedback. This is something I really need to practice.
TG, some embarrassing news but I got to get it out. Already have three pages of great help.
Thanks all.


M / W: 43
D8
S6
M 10 years / T 13 years
W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09
Separated in same house 10.6.09
W moved out 2.27.10