MHL and PEI, thanks for the book recommendation. This hits all the right notes that I think she's referenced in our conversations. MHL you are right - these things are totally mundane to me, yet I now understand she craves that feedback. This is something I really need to practice. TG, some embarrassing news but I got to get it out. Already have three pages of great help. Thanks all.
M / W: 43 D8 S6 M 10 years / T 13 years W admitted EA/PA: 10.6.09 Separated in same house 10.6.09 W moved out 2.27.10