Your wife is a brilliant poker player, she can lie with a straight face and use any emotion she has to manipulate people... You've seen it
Bark and cry, bark and cry... Now she's trying "nice"...
Dude, she's not over you. It's been ten years... its gonna take her at least a year to get you out of her system. Attachment isn't a lightswitch... she's good at HIDING it is all...
And she's not being civil.. she's lyign to you and making promises she is ALREADY breaking before she even makes them to you... She tells you she doens't want to sleep with anyone but she's been plotting sex romps, having internet sex and phone sex with how many men?
Don't let her civil tone fool you into thinking she's going to be fair... She's lying right from the start.. You KNOW that.
All she's doing is trying to APPEAR civil to your face, and behind your back she will screw you over silly...
Do NOT fall for this game of hers, she has her mother completely fooled by it... Don't you be a sucker too...
She is NOT over you She is NOT to be trusted.. Don't make ANY VERBAL DEALS with her
If you agree to the dog sit and walks in teh park you know what she's going to say behind your back?
That you are pathetic and you STILL can't let go and you are a BIG SUCKER