actually one more thing.

from here on out, no more arguing, being whiny or depressing.
It radiates negative energy.

People always ask what book should I read. I'm not joking here, but Cesar Millan has a number of books about training dogs. He emphasis being "leader of the pack" and that the energy you're projecting internally is the message you're sending.

People are attracted to positive energy. If you are negative and argumentative, depressive and whiny people, your wife, will avoid you.

"Life is good. I am where it's at."