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Well, you say you were saying you wanted a divorce (did she want one then too?).

Now she has moved out. You have time and space to do Lee stuff. She has time and space to do Mrs Lee stuff. Why not just go along with this and make the best of it for now?

What can you do now that you didn't have the time or inclination to do while she was there? Embrace what she has given you, let her figure out what she wants on her own, and control yourself instead of giving her control over your emotional state.

Want what she wants, but it starts by accepting where you are right now, and then you start doing things you can do on your own.



Yea I wanted one when the emotion was to high and I wasnt thinking clearly. Just like she does now. But then she calsm down and then it turns into 2nd chance and I thought about coming home.

Last edited by LeeSC; 08/07/10 07:20 PM.

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