My daughter was led to believe that it was cool that mommy had both a husband and a boyfriend. When I first learned from the kids, I was both heart broken and in a rage at the same time.
When I call my wife and confronted her about OM she said it is a co worker and it "just happened" From what I know if my wife of ten years emotionally I do not think she has any idea where up or down is. Wife could barley keep the house running with two kids know she will have to deal with 4 kids.
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learn to detach from thinking too much about your W and OM. Improve yourself for yourself and your kids. It is not easy, but if you keep your focus on the kids sake, the rest of your life should fall in place.
The very day my wife moved out of the house I stopped all conversations with her about everything except the girls. Little Texting if any no phone calls to her ever. When she dopes off the girls it is all smiles for me more or less pretending everything is good in my life. She tries to have small talk but I politely cut her short and say sorry but if there is anything you need to talk to me about regarding the girls please test me. I hope this is a detatching step for me.
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There is no guarantee that your wife will have an awakening, but I believe that because you have kids together, it will cause her more often to reflect on what is important - family.
I think our generation has lost the meaning of the word FAMILY as WAS are only thinking about one thing there happiness.
