You don't think it's time for the last resort technique? The two of you are separated, have the kids on a visition schedule and she wants out of the M. When were you planning to use the LRT?
Its not that cut and dry. We are separated, Yes. But we talk every single day. We see each other almost every single day. The way we have the kids 50/50 no one goes longer than 2 days at most not seeing them. Yes, she has said she wanted a divorce, only to go back to saying I dont know what I want. Last night she said it derserves a 2nd chance, and admitted that she has thought about coming home during all this. I am not sure if its time to do LTR. Only when she keeps her mind made up for longer than 2 days or files? I dont know. We are going around in circles. If I cut off all ties in the LTR I am almost poisitve that will not help my sitch at all. I think I need a combo of both maybe. I just need to use the experiment phase still IMO.
