Originally Posted By: Virtually_Handsome I don't think it is time for LTR, but it is sure time to stop talking about the relationship. The only reason I would suggest LRT right now is to give you a chance to center yourself.
That is very good advice. I didnt think it was time for the LTR yet either but I need to stop the R talk.
You don't think it's time for the last resort technique? The two of you are separated, have the kids on a visition schedule and she wants out of the M. When were you planning to use the LRT?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!