You are very welcome. Those re written history stories. They are the worst, aren't they? To hear him tell it, I've led him around by a ring in his nose on my terms for the last 20 years. In actuality, I've taken care of most all of the responsibilies while he's been deployed to this place or that, chasing his career.
I can support myself, but, and I apologize if this sounds greedy or nasty, I've worked just as hard as he has over the last 20 years and I'll be damned if he'll take it all away from me. So that is what our entire life is down to. Money. Makes me sad.
