CH - Very sorry about how hard a time you are having. One thing I have learned through this journey, and trying to detach and go dark is that the MLC'r wants what they want when they want it. Like a toddler who wants a toy, they don't care how or who they hurt to get it.
The hardest part of all is that you have to let her go through it alone. You can't make her decisions and live with them. She has to do that. As I've been told on this site lots of times, you didn't break her, you can't fix her.
