I think my problem is that I hang on every word she saids. Thats a huge issue, when she in a bad mood, we are done, when she is in a avg mood she is confused and knows that we should be together. When she goes negative, I go negative and just start grabing for answers. If I can look over that when it happens, the presure part would stop. I have got to look over that and just stick with the plan. Easier said than done.
Right on lee. My W is doing the same exact thing. You know that saying believe nothing she says, only 50% of what she does? Well, start focusing on those "average" times as the 50% you want to believe. The other times are that 50% that isn't true.
----"Et tu, Brute?"---- me:28 W:24 S4 T:6 M:4 EA Exposed: 5/21/10 Bomb: 6/20/10 (Father's Day) NC w/ OM: 7/10/10 W moved out 8/21/10 http://bit.ly/aOrZne - My sitch
