TH has a good point ooncerning the closure statement with the old boyfriend. That would be like my MLC H telling me he went back and took up with his old GF from 40 years ago because he needed closure. (She dumped him back then.)
It wasn't a rational person who left me, the kids and everything we built for an old GF. My H is now less happy there than he was with his family.
Please think about what it is that you truly want.
