I think my problem is that I hang on every word she saids. Thats a huge issue, when she in a bad mood, we are done, when she is in a avg mood she is confused and knows that we should be together. When she goes negative, I go negative and just start grabing for answers. If I can look over that when it happens, the presure part would stop. I have got to look over that and just stick with the plan. Easier said than done.