Jstar,I admit I stopped following your thread because it was confusing to keep up with you changing your mind about whether to save your marriage or to divorce your H.

Right now, it is clear that you are overwhelmed by all the financial and family obligations (duh!).

Please remind me: Have you met with a lawyer yet? Use credit cards if you have to or look up free legal assistance for your county. In your complicated case (being married to an illegal immigrant--wait, I guess you were never married, then, right?) It is especially crucial for you to have legal advice!

Another thing you can do for money: self stuff on craigslist!


Last edited by newmama; 08/07/10 03:24 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004