((((((poet))))))
I know the thought of losing the house hurts, but how does it fit into the big picture? In my case, I have the house, selling it would be financial suicide, and keeping it is slow financial suicide.

My way of looking at things would be to try to flip the situation on its head, and see if you can see the ways that not having the house might be an opportunity, rather than a burden. Perhaps it could give you the freedom to make choices that you couldn't even consider with it.