CTH,
I'm sorry about your dread.
And I completely understand the dichotomy of the Optomist and the Realist.
Originally Posted By: ClingingToHope
What happens when the D becomes final? Does a light-switch go off in your head? I hope so. I still Cling To Hope.
For me? I thought it had. Turns out I was wrong.
Maybe, like the saying about happiness, detachment is a journey, not a destination.

Peace,


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac