I have to agree with Puppy and TH. You are completely invalidating her feelings right now. You have yet to take back your power to control your own feelings. Trust me dude, she knows you are thinking about her, she knows you love her.
Originally Posted By: john28
She came home, I let her be. Still, not a good night. Lots of cross looks, crap like that, bad mood. I asked her if she wanted to go to bed, she said no, then I asked if she would play cards.
How the heck is that "letting her be"????? C'mon john, this isn't rocket science, hard work? Yes. But complicated or difficult to understand? No. You need to DETACH.
Originally Posted By: john28
We playd for about 10 minutes and she said she was ready for bed. We went to bed. Said ILY, goodnight.
That my friend you DO have some control over. Take your W out of the equation. If your life was hunky-dory and you were having a great, fun weekend (that didn't involve W) what would you be doing? Now go do it.
PEI quantified it and said it much better than I could.
