THEN, when SHE CONFRONTS ME, I can remain calm and level-headed, and just say:
"We had an agreement on the items you would take. You broke that agreement, and I will not be lied to and disrespected. The items in question are mine, and I have placed them in safe custody in order to protect my property from your disregard for my personal things"
Basically, I bring her INTO MY SPACE, and make HER confront. She has a temper, and therefore I can be the calm one and let HER emotions get the best of her.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed