I think then I am going to go with 2).

THEN, when SHE CONFRONTS ME, I can remain calm and level-headed, and just say:

"We had an agreement on the items you would take. You broke that agreement, and I will not be lied to and disrespected. The items in question are mine, and I have placed them in safe custody in order to protect my property from your disregard for my personal things"

Basically, I bring her INTO MY SPACE, and make HER confront. She has a temper, and therefore I can be the calm one and let HER emotions get the best of her.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed