Right now QS how you look to her really isn't important...
This is the same thing that spouses do when they are wayward... Boundaries that were once safe and respected are PUSHED to their LIMITS
You have choices when this happens
a. Retaliate (immature and unhealthy for you in the long run) b. Supplicate (sacrificing your dignity won't bring anyone home) c. Maintain your dignity but don't retaliate
People try a and b all the time and end up regretting it..
C is the hardest line to walk but the healthiest one for you
If you confront her on it she will just either do one of the following :
a. Make a huge scene, throw a tantrum, and surrender the items b. Make a huge scene, laugh in your face, and refuse to surrender the items
Either way its just her playing a hand again... She has two cards she plays man :
a. Smug b. Victim
Neither one will get the results you want confronting her... She only plays those two cards...
If you want to bring a friend over while she packs that may throw a wrench in things... what do you think?
