Ugghhh.

Her MOM is coming over today to help my wife pack. Seriously?

I have two options that SUCK either way.

1) Stay here and keep a close eye on them ane MAKE SURE they don't pack anything that we agreed on that stays.

2) Go away all day and then have to sort through all the boxes and find out where and what is missing.

I found a list she made of things to pack, and she is DEFINITELY planning on taking things that we agreed she wouldn't

Why is it that she feels a sense of ENTITLEMENT to take WHATEVER SHE WANTS?

Like I am MAD AS HELL right now. But I don't want to be over the top confrontational.

But waiting and sorting through stuff makes me seem passive-aggressive too.

She didn't stay at home last night. I don't know where she went, but the whole server thing must have REALLY freaked her out.

And she and her new roommie must have sent 100 texts last night to each other.

I think I am going to just wait, and then take back whatever she packs that we didn't agree on. That way, she goes through ALL the TROUBLE of packing, and then QS sweeps in tonight after she leaves, and takes his stuff back to an undisclosed location.

I HATE that walk away women feel they are ENTITLED to take WHATEVER THEY WANT.

Any suggestions on this? 1) REALLY would suck. 2) kind of makes me look a little crazy I think.

Last edited by Quicksilver264; 08/07/10 02:32 PM.

Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed