Abuquerque For almost a year I had suspicions that my H was having an A. He would lie obsessively about it whenever I confronted him or questioned him. Looking back- I wish I didn't do that...I didn't have any proof...just a gut feeling. It made me feel worse being lied to.
However, once I found H 'extra' cell phone...he couldn't lie about it any longer. In my case, I wish I sat back and did exactly what PEI is suggesting up until this revelation. For me- confronting him before the 'proof' didn't result in anything good. Unless you have proof- be prepared for 1 million excuses and 2 million lies.
